The first impression when my eldest brother introduced her to us as his girlfriend, she was quite nice and jolly person. She showed thoughtfullness, respect and care to all of us. She was loved by my parents, and yeah, almost all of us, as days, weeks, months and years go by.
When the time she married with my Kuya(eldest brother) that is when we slowly discovered the real in her. Because she lives in our own family house for a long time with my parents and other siblings.
I was not there in the Philippines during those times. I am already working as an OFW (Overseas Filipino Worker). My other two brothers and their respective wives is telling me that she used to ask and borrow money from them and not payng them back. Maybe sometimes she will pay, and then she will borrow again until it was forgotten.
My father (RIP) I remember complained one time that she spent the money he gave that is supposed to pay for the electricity bill. She never replaced the money. My father (RIP) and my other brothers just find solution to pay the electricity to avoid the disconnection.
There’s an occasion my father (RIP) also said when my remittance arrived, she and the rest of her husband and kids leave the house and just return back whenever they want without leaving any budget or food for him and my mother to eat during their absence. I don’t believe on what he is saying because I trust her and my Kuya (his husband) that they will not neglect our parents in any way.
Then lately, when my father was confined in the hospital for about a month, she and my Kuya were my companions. We all there beside our Tatay (father) taking care of him and attending to all his needs. Our family did experience shortage of finances due to the expenses in medicines, hospital bills and the like. I felt somehow some consolation because there was she and her husband helping me all along.
My Tatay died on the same year. After few months of grieving and paying our debts, thanks to God,our family surpassed the bereavement and the financial crisis.
Recently,her involvement in the SSS-pension ATM of my mother is something I really can’t believe she could do it. It was well planned and systematic. I asked her to give me the SSS-atm of my mother so I will be the one to manage while I’m in the country. She gave me the ATM card after few weeks.
The following months, I noticed that no more money is coming in on the ATM. Until I inquire in the SSS and in the bank with the help of my youngest brother. There, we discovered the ATM was made as a collateral for a loan. She was the co-maker in the contract shown by the lending company.
My mother has no capacity to decide regarding that loan because of her Early Alzheimer’s condition. And she took advantage of my mother’s instability to do what she wants with the SSS-atm pension. She denies what she did up to this time of my writing.
I entrust a small business of room for rent to her and her husband. When they decided to leave from our subdivision, I asked what’s their plan with the business. But they ignore my queries and don’t mind at all. Until I came home again from working abroad. I file a case in the barangay hall to the person who is supposed to pay me for the rent, then I found out that it was paid already during the hearing. And the one who took the payment was the person I am referring on this blog. I supposed to blotter her in where she is residing but no time at all because I have to go back abroad again.
There are some more neighbors in our subdvision that were victimized by her. They plan to file a case as well,but no time yet. Another victim is the wife of my 2nd eldest brother. She trusted her also in a room for rent business but to find out later, there are two of them collecting payments on one and the same tenant. Until she couldn’t retrieve her money anymore.
Nobody is perfect, I know. Please view my revelations in the positive aspect. May I request all who have read this article, kindly include me and this woman I am referring here in your prayers. My other reason of posting this is to caution others in dealing with her. Maybe God is not finish yet.