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Betrayed by a Sister (Part 3)

Natutuwa ako sa sandaling ito sa dahil nagtagumpay sa pagkakataong ito ang tama at mabuti. Ilang araw din na dumaan ng pagpapaala at pagdadasal na sana wag na nya ulitin pa ang dating maling gawain. Makikita sa larawan sa ibaba ang transaksyon sa Land Bank account ng aking Nanay. Nai-deposito din ang bayad na dapat talaga ay para sa kanya.

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Matapos ang paghingi ng tawad sa mga nagawang mali at panloloko, ngayon ay nag-susumikap na ang mga ito’y maituwid na.Nag-uumpisa pa lang, dahil sa buhay ay marami pang darating na pagkakataon na susubukin ang katapatan o ang taos pusong pagsisisi. Sana piliin pa rin nya ang gumawa ng marami pang tama dahil yan lang susi para malimutan ng mga tao at mapatawad na rin sya ng tuluyan. Wala namang perpekto.

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Hindi pa dito nagtatapos, aabangan pa namin ang mga magaganda pang pagkakataon na sya’y magtatagumpay muli sa paggawa ng kabutihan dahil natuto na syang mahalin at bigyan halaga ang sarili nya. Nauunawaan nya na mas mahalaga sya sa pera o anumang materyal na bagay. Makikita ng tao sa paligid nya kung gaano nya mahalin at pahalagahan ang sarili nya ay ganun din sya itatrato ng mga ito.

 

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Betrayed by a Sister (Part 2)

Sa araw na ito ay naisip ko na isulat na lamang itong kwento sa Tagalog. Dahil nais kong maihatid ang mensahe ko ng malinaw sa mga ordinaryong tao na naapektohan ng panloloko ng parehong tao din na nangloko sa akin.

Hindi po ako masamang tao. Nagbibigay po ako ng pagkakataon sa mga nakagawa ng mali sa akin. Pero ang tinutukoy ko dito ay inabuso ang mga pagkakataon na binigay ko. Hanggang sa kasalukuyan ay patuloy pa nya kaming dinadaya at niloloko. Kailan ba sya titigil?

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Nagkasundo na kami na di na nya pakikialaman ang aming mga pag-aari at buhay. Sa totoo lang, pinapaalis ko sya sa tinitirhan nya ngayon dahil iyon ay pag-aari ng pamilya namin, ng aming Nanay. Na isa rin nyang niloko at ginawang sangkalan sa mga naniningil sa kanyang pagkakautang. Nasabi ko na sa Part 1 ng kwento ko na may karamdaman ang aking ina sa pag-iisip(Early Alzheimers syndrome). Bakit gagamitin nya ang kahinaan ng aking ina sa kalokohan nya? Wala akong nakikitang hustisya. Ang pananatili nya sa bahay na sinasabi ko ay sa kagustuhan lang ng nakakatanda naming kapatid na asawa nya. Nagsabi sya na bigyan pa ng isa pang pagkakataon.

Ngunit nito lang May 23, meron nais umupa sa kwarto na nabakante. Mababasa nyo naman sa pinirmahan nyang papel na nakikita nyo dito. Ngunit akalain pa ba na lalabag sya mismo sa kanyang pinangako at pinirmahan? Ang bagong umuupa ay nagbayad o nagbigay ng pera sa kanya at tinanggap nya naman. At  hanggang sa kasulukuyan ay di maibalik para maipadala na sana sa pangalan ng aming ina na sya namang nararapat.

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Ang naunang tumira sa nabakanteng kwarto ay hiniraman din nya ng pera. At meron pa sya ginarantoran na iba pa. Mababasa nyo sa text message ang kalungkutan nya. Mabubuting tao sila, nagsusumikap para kumita ng pera sa maayos at marangal na paraan. Hindi ba pwedeng maging patas din sya? Matalino, masipag, kumpleto sa parte ng physical at may malakas na pangangatawan para maghanapbuhay. Gamitin nya mga talento at mga regalo ng Dios sa kanya. Malalampasan at malulutas nya ang kakapusan sa pinansyal.

Panawagan ko sa mga makakabasa ng kwentong ito na wag maging mapaghusga. Lahat tayo ay may pagkakamali. Ang hangad ko makaiwas na mabiktima kayo ng taong ito, sa ganon wala na sya mabobola o maloloko. At sya rin mismo sa sarili nya ay mahiya, magkaroon ng lakas ng loob at pananampalataya sa Panginoon na makapagbagong buhay habang hindi pa huli ang lahat.

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Betrayed by a sister

The first impression when my eldest brother introduced her to us as his girlfriend, she was quite nice and jolly person. She showed thoughtfullness, respect and care to all of us. She was loved by my parents, and yeah, almost all of us, as days, weeks, months and years go by.

When the time she married with my Kuya(eldest brother) that is when we slowly discovered the real in her. Because she lives in our own family house for a long time with my parents and other siblings.

I was not there in the Philippines during those times. I am already working as an OFW (Overseas Filipino Worker). My other two brothers and their respective wives is telling me that she used to ask and borrow money from them and not payng them back. Maybe sometimes she will pay, and then she will borrow again until it was forgotten.

My father (RIP) I remember complained one time that she spent the money he gave that is supposed to pay for the electricity bill. She never replaced the money. My father (RIP) and my other brothers just find solution to pay the electricity to avoid the disconnection.

There’s an occasion my father (RIP) also said when my remittance arrived, she and the rest of her husband and kids leave the house and just return back whenever they want without leaving any budget or food for him and my mother to eat during their absence. I don’t believe on what he is saying because I trust her and my Kuya (his husband) that they will not neglect our parents in any way.

Then lately, when my father was confined in the hospital for about a month, she and my Kuya were my companions. We all there beside our Tatay (father) taking care of him and attending to all his needs. Our family did experience shortage of finances due to the expenses in medicines, hospital bills and the like. I felt somehow some consolation because there was she and her husband helping me all along.

My Tatay died on the same year. After few months of grieving and paying our debts, thanks to God,our family surpassed the bereavement and the financial crisis.

Recently,her involvement in the SSS-pension ATM of my mother is something I really can’t believe she could do it. It was well planned and systematic. I asked her to give me the SSS-atm of my mother so I will be the one to manage while I’m in the country. She gave me the ATM card after few weeks.

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The following months, I noticed that no more money is coming in on the ATM. Until I inquire in the SSS and in the bank with the help of my youngest brother. There, we discovered the ATM was made as a collateral for a loan. She was the co-maker in the contract shown by the lending company.

My mother has no capacity to decide regarding that loan because of her Early Alzheimer’s condition. And she took advantage of my mother’s instability to do what she wants with the SSS-atm pension. She denies what she did up to this time of my writing.

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I entrust a small business of room for rent to her and her husband. When they decided to leave from our subdivision, I asked what’s their plan with the business. But they ignore my queries and don’t mind at all. Until I came home again from working abroad. I file a case in the barangay hall to the person who is supposed to pay me for the rent, then I found out that it was paid already during the hearing. And the one who took the payment was the person I am referring on this blog. I supposed to blotter her in where she is residing but no time at all because I have to go back abroad again.

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There are some more neighbors in our subdvision that were victimized by her. They plan to file a case as well,but no time yet. Another victim is the wife of my 2nd eldest brother. She trusted her also in a room for rent business but to find out later, there are two of them collecting payments on one and the same tenant. Until she couldn’t retrieve her money anymore.

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Nobody is perfect, I know. Please view my revelations in the positive aspect. May I request all who have read this article, kindly include me and this woman I am referring here in your prayers. My other reason of posting  this is to caution others in dealing with her. Maybe God is not finish yet.

 

 

 

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This is how I work

When my duty starts mostly at night shift, I used to ask my colleague who is about to go off duty. Asking about how’s the machines and any special endorsements before he or she left.

Lab

Here, I am checking the Dimension RXL machine. This is what I used to run blood samples for Biochemistry.

Synchron

I start putting on samples in a sector. Arranging  by laboratory number and checking again. Ready to process in Synchron CX3 and CX4. This is another machine I am using in Biochemistry.

Data entry

Entering the patient details in the computer while the samples are in process.

COBAS Integra

This is COBAS Integra 400 plus, another machine for Biochemistry. I am about to insert the rack with the blood samples in it.

Sysmex KX-21N

To get the complete blood count or CBC, this Sysmex KX-21N is of great help!

CELLDYNE Ruby

But this CELL DYNE Ruby can read the white blood cell differential counts and the morphology in details. Amazing!

Bactec

Scanning the blood culture bottle. This machine will incubate the blood culture of patients. In about 5 days, the  results are due whether it is Negative or Positive to some bacteria.

MicroScan

I try to check the progress of the identification of bacteria and its specie in this machine named MicroScan Walkaway. Very helpful in Microbiology and Bacteriology department!

Microbiology

Trying to see some colonies of Salmonella and Shigella in a XLD culture plate.

Microscope

Scrutinizing the red blood cells, microscopically.

Report

The documentation of reports. Yeah, it’s 4AM already. Still alive, awake and enthusiastic!..hehe.

Biochem report

The report after I processed in the machine.

Medical Laboratory

I disclosed here how I work, obviously you know now where is my workplace..haha.

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The way it used to be

Lean on me, when you’re not that strong …And I’ll help you to carry on.

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